She/He is out of your league.

How many times have you heard that in your single years?

For some of you, not….for others….maybe a few times.

And again, the questions is raised….and a valid one, I might add….just where are you going with this, Dodd?

I was watching a video with Mary J Blige. I think that she is a very attractive woman. And the line from the song “Mr. Jones” by Counting Crows came blasting into my brain…

“I wish I was beautiful.”

Who among us has not thought that? You see someone you think is attractive, and you wonder what it would be like. Would it change the core ‘YOU”?

And the brought to mind a conversation I was having with a friend the other night. We were talking about the past few women in my life and out of nowhere she comes out with the statement that I was out of all of their leagues.

And that stopped me in my tracks. I actually didn’t have anything to say. Believe me, I was as surprised as you….

I still don’t have any concept of what that even means when it is in relation to me.