I’m a whiner.
I admit to it. I have no shame in it.
I try to hold on the the shit storms that surround me at times, but there is always a tipping point when it all comes out.
And I let it out.
This part of my personality has not always worked out to my benefit, shall we say. Consequently, I have been trying to hold my tongue more.
And I find myself happier for it. It isn’t that the things that people do and say no longer irritate me. Believe me they do.
But I just do not have to energy to get involved with arguing, and fussing about the things that in the long run just do not matter.
Life is so much easier now. I am so much more at peace.
You ought to give it a try.